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5 days ago5 min read
CONCLUSION
December 12, 2024 One year ago today, I moved into this apartment in Portland. In spite of all the challenges, it has been, hands...
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cocodensmore
5 days ago2 min read
There is no magical deliverance from the pain of lost love.
August 2, 2021 The Louisville Vacation I just had a long chat with a fellow I met in a bar who ended a 44-year marriage recently....
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cocodensmore
Nov 2210 min read
Why do we women give ourselves away so easily?
February 2, 2018 Last week was a fabulous week. It culminated in the best sex I could ever hope for with the man I love most in the...
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cocodensmore
Nov 204 min read
The #MeToo Backlash
November 20, 2024 It’s been difficult to read the news the last few days. Some surmise that Trump’s cabinet picks are payback for the...
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cocodensmore
Oct 268 min read
I'm a post-menopausal Childless Cat Lady. And damn proud of it.
October 26, 2024 This is a weird thing that has happened to me. A weird thing about who I’ve become, someone I would not have dreamed I...
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cocodensmore
Oct 115 min read
Why Borderline Personality Disorder is a Bullshit Diagnosis
October 11, 2024 I had a conversation with one of my best friends this morning. She’d been reading her psych notes and saw the...
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cocodensmore
Sep 302 min read
The worst fucking thing I ever did.
September 30, 2024 I was just thinking about how I outed Married Man to his wife. “That’s the worst fucking thing I ever did,” I said out...
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cocodensmore
Sep 292 min read
Let that sink in.
September 29,2024 I used to think it was funny to joke about herpes. Haha. But it wasn’t funny. It isn’t funny. I didn’t think it would...
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cocodensmore
Sep 91 min read
My soul clings to You; Your right hand upholds me.
July 18, 2019 My mom has been in and out of the hospital all week from surgical complications. I was driving to the hospital this...
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