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cocodensmore
Oct 2, 20214 min read
There Will Be Men Again
I’m working on a book titled How To Do Single With Dignity and Grace. About three weeks ago, I started writing the chapter on STIs and I...
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cocodensmore
Oct 1, 20212 min read
Cruel & Unusual
The word “toxic” gets thrown around quite a bit in our society. It’s a very loaded term and it’s a very loaded concept. Before you start...
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cocodensmore
Oct 1, 20212 min read
You're Fucking Perfect
There are a few tenets I hold fast to, that define me and guide me in every decision I make. I firmly believe that wherever you are is...
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cocodensmore
Oct 1, 20213 min read
Herpes Schmerpes
Today marks two weeks since I got my positive herpes diagnosis. It's my herpesversary! I was talking to a friend about why I decided to...
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cocodensmore
Sep 29, 20213 min read
Sex. Ugh. Herpes. Ugh.
I had an interesting conversation with my niece this afternoon. She’s a nurse. She’s 33. She’s the most mature put together person I’ve...
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cocodensmore
Sep 29, 20212 min read
Do the Right Thing
So about this genital herpes thing. I realized if I was going to be mature and responsible and decent about it, I would notify my...
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cocodensmore
Sep 28, 20212 min read
I'm Coming Out
I was diagnosed with HSV-2 on September 17, 2021. For eleven days, I've spent hours researching online, talking to friends that are also...
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cocodensmore
Sep 27, 20211 min read
Explore. Dream. Discover.
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So, throw off the bowlines,...
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cocodensmore
Sep 26, 20213 min read
Oh Lord, won't you buy me, a Mercedes Benz?
September 26, 2021 Journal Entry I woke up this morning to the grey light pouring in, covering me in Pacific Northwest glum, anticipating...
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